How Reflex Integration Helps Kids Overcome ADHD Frustrations

How it’s All Connected

It’s probably no surprise that ADHD is the most commonly diagnosed neurodevelopmental disorder among children. Chances are, you know a kiddo with ADHD—or an adult who still experiences its effects. In fact, 65% of those diagnosed continue to struggle with symptoms into adulthood. While ADHD is often associated with hyperactivity, it can also show up as emotional dysregulation, learning challenges, and difficulties with relationships or impulse control.

But what if some of these struggles weren’t just about attention, but about the brain’s ability to regulate the body? Research suggests that retained primitive reflexes—early movement patterns that should fade as the brain matures—can keep the nervous system stuck in a reactive state. This makes it harder for higher brain centers to take control, leading to many of the challenges seen in ADHD. By integrating these reflexes, we can help the nervous system settle, allowing kids to better regulate emotions, movement, and behavior.

Retained Reflexes

A retained reflex can make it harder for kids to regulate emotions, stay focused, and manage behaviors often associated with ADHD.

If you’ve ever watched a baby stretch into a “fencer’s pose”—one arm extended with the opposite leg stretched out—you’ve seen the Asymmetric Tonic Neck Reflex (ATNR) in action. This reflex develops in the womb, helps during birth, and supports early movement and coordination. Normally, it fades as the brain matures, but when it lingers (a “retained reflex”), it can contribute to challenges often seen in ADHD.

A retained ATNR can make it harder for kids to process sensory input, regulate emotions, and stay focused. It may also affect coordination, social engagement, and impulse control, making everyday tasks and interactions more difficult. Left unaddressed, these difficulties can impact long-term confidence and relationships.

Bringing the Brain and Body into Balance

By helping the brain and body work together through reflex integration, we can calm the nervous system and support higher brain functions—leading to better self-control, improved learning, and a greater sense of well-being. Early intervention can make a big difference, helping kids strengthen their skills, build confidence, and thrive in daily life.

At Integrated Therapy Services, we actually specialize in identifying and integrating retained reflexes. Our team is passionate about helping kids gain better control of their bodies and emotions so they can navigate the world with greater ease. If your child is facing these struggles, we’re here to help!

Put It Into Practice

Pay Attention to your child

Pay attention to your child’s movement patterns, emotional responses, and struggles with regulation—small observations can lead to big breakthroughs in understanding their needs. If you think they may be delayed in a certain area talk with a professional about helpful next steps!

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